Mirra Fine - Blog


Age sixteen was a turning point for me: I had finally started to blossom. Not like the other girls my age — but rather my spiral permed bangs were growing out and I had discovered hyper color tshirts. My plastic, octagon-shaped, white glasses with smurfs emblazoned on each side had been replaced with clear, octagon-shaped glasses that had an off-putting yellowing tint, and stone washed jeans were in style. Given those recent developments, I decided that this period in my life was the perfect time to mingle with other teens at the 16+ “dance clubs” in random suburban strip malls. It was my friend Aimee’s idea, and since she was super hot and naturally tan, I thought we were both going to have an equally good time “clubbing”. Obviously I was wrong. To start off, I was the only person wearing Hammer pants.

Within a few seconds of our arrival a boy with a bowl cut (that’s right…) appeared through the green and pink tinted smoke machine exhaust and asked Aimee to dance. She was flattered (naturally), and wanting to pass on some of her good fortune to others, promised to dance with him only if his friend danced with me. I watched in nervous anticipation as the two boys — both in oversized t-shirts and white baseball caps — conferred on the offer.  Finally they came back with a solid decision:  “no deal”.  I think she danced with him anyways. 

I can remember that feeling vividly as it is the same one I used to get every time I walked into a chef-y restaurant with Daniel. He is the super hot, meat eating gentleman with a “sophisticated palate” who will most likely get the wine pairing. And I am the vegetarian who will probably order a soda with my meal. No one wants to dance with me. 

I can see the disdainful look on the waiter’s face when he takes my order.  I know that he is going back to the kitchen to confer with the chef, each present their version of a heavy eye roll, and then prepare one of two tasting menus for the “a-hole at table 2”: I will either receive 10 dishes of beets in varying forms, or I will get the same tasting menu as Daniel, but the kitchen will simply remove the bacon.  I actually dont really like beets, and the second option really sucks…but as a vegetarian at a fancy restaurant, I know that I should feel lucky I am even allowed in the place. So I eat what I’m given.  The meal is usually finished with a copy of the meat tasting menu that I can take home with me. 

This has been my experience at many chef-y restaurants. Given this track record, I tend to show up at these joints without much expectation. But sometimes, there are exceptions to the rule. And as of late, Ive been experiencing many exceptions.  Such was the case when we dropped into Etxebarri during our recent visit to Spain. Now normally, I choose not to do a foodie-style photo breakdown of the meal… But by God, that chef’s mother must have been a vegetarian — Because he treated me like I was really loved. Each dish was simple, carefully thought out and completely meat and fish free. Foodie-style photo breakdown is below. 

Mushrooms (Hygrophorus Maruolus) at Etxebarri

Now, despite my job (where I document food), anyone who knows me knows that I would prefer a huge bowl of spaghetti with tomato sauce eaten in sweatpants on the couch over a 10-course tasting menu any day. But I also know that dinner at one of these restaurants is an art form, and being able to experience it is something that makes me very lucky. When you take in a painting, you want to understand what the artist was thinking, what was behind each piece. The same happens when you see a beautiful and thoughtfully created dish. And when someone presents me with produce from their chef’s own garden, hand picks and de-shells each individual pea, and (what I can only assume is) kisses it before putting it onto my plate… you take notice. The dishes at Etxebarri were pure examples of how good each main element (a mushroom, a green bean, a pepper) could be,  and each made me kick myself that I didnt like vegetables until last year. It was so good that Daniel (you know, that popular meat eater from the beginning of the post) even recommended one of our meat loving friends to pose as a vegetarian when coming to Etxebarri for an upcoming meal. 

To be fair, there are a handful of restaurants Ive visited where I was humbled and honored by their veggie tasting menu in the past couple years (Herb Farm, McCradys, Michel Bras to name a few). But those experiences were also dotted with the other, not-so-veggie friendly meals. In my opinion, being a good chef means you are able to make a great dish out of any ingredient — be it meat, vegetable, grain or cheese. At the very least, you should look at each item as a challenge.  So, to scoff at having a vegetarian customer is pretty unfortunate. Luckily, I think more and more restaurants are starting to be in agreement with me on that one.

In the past 3 months, Daniel has found himself eating off of my plate, as the menus at restaurants across Europe have been making non-meat dishes to envy. These are extremely well know and reputable places where, in many cases, over 60% of the menu is vegetarian in the first place.  I would list off these restaurants here, but that would make me sound obnoxious. So, if you’re a vegetarian and looking to be treated with the same care bestowed upon the meat eaters, email me and Ill tell ya’ where to go.  

The good news is Meat, in many cases, is slowly becoming something special again — meaning it doesn’t have to be in every dish and doesnt have to be eaten every day. Consequently, vegetables are becoming special… which means, when it comes to eating at a fancy restaurant, I’m starting to feel special too. 


24 responses to “Etxebarri”

  1. Great post and pictures, Mirra. Love the fact that you guys upload the original resolutions.

  2. Bob Rembert says:

    Great articale Mirra. Cooking vegetarian is a wonderful challenge.

  3. Darn! Thanks for this report. The only reason my favorite vegetarian girlfriend is not coming with me to Donostia (and Etxebarri) end of may is, that the that last time i was in basque country my main impression was, that in the eyes of the locals, grass-eaters are merely odd people who have not discovered good food yet and are treated as such – which is obviously nonsense, but nonetheless frustrating. So, if you have any vegetarian friendly restaurants and pintxo bars to point me to – specifically around San Sebastian – i’d appreciate a message a lot. It will get me another trip to Etxebarri after all 🙂 .

    • Mirra Fine says:

      Hey @facebook-676473940:disqus — shoot! Im sad that your veggie friend is going to miss out (this time) on Etxebarri. But Im telling you, if you go with another person during this trip… one of you should get the vegetarian menu. It is amazing. Plus, there is a ton of food, and you both will be happy to be able to try more dishes. The rest of San Sebastian isnt perfect for vegetarians, but there are definitely some wonderful things to eat. Olives, cheese, spanish tortilla, preserved white asparagus, mushrooms. If she eats fish, the tuna there is incredible. But yeah, sometimes you have to search for it a bit. Etxebarri was definitely the best. Unfortunately, there werent any veggie friendly pintxo bars that stood out.

  4. maris Gilbert says:

    I love this! Mirra, beautifully written and really good news for vegetables, and the planet. And you got to have Fried Cream? What? oh what loveliess that must have been!

  5. Oliver says:

    I live in Bilbao and would like to know exactly where this restaurant in located! It looks and sounds great! Thanks in advance!

    • Mirra Fine says:

      Hey @7e7a9767613e6c943ecf02fb294e947c:disqus It’s about a 40 minute drive from Bilbao in a town called Axpe. Definitely worth the trip. Here is the website:

      • oliver says:

        Hey Mirra! Thanks so much! I can’t wait to try the food there. Also wanted to just say that The Perennial Plate videos are really beautifully done, extremely addicting and just what the world needs more of! Bravo! Keep it up!

  6. You are so lovable, Mirra.

  7. Angela Sze says:

    Mirra! When I read your stories, it’s like I am there with you or that you are telling me the story in person. You have such a knack for this!! Makes me miss our Bailey days!!! xoxo

  8. v m says:

    This makes me really regret that I did not venture to Etxebarri while in Basque country. I knew from previous visits to Spain that tapas/pintxos would be far easier to navigate. Travel turned me into a pescetarian, so it is not nearly as difficult as it is for a vegetarian, but I prefer to eat mostly vegetarian. I wholeheartedly agree, a good chef should be able to make an amazing meal out of any ingredient!

  9. LB says:

    I am truly enjoying your videos and content! The photo and film has good quality. I am wondering what you are using to take photos and filming? I am always looking for referrals to a good quality camera for photos and filming that is not too expensive. Thank you.

  10. Laura says:

    It is about time that people learn how to eat less meat. It is healthier and less taxing on the environment. Glad that you found me with the video about Italy so I can explore your website.

  11. Mark Johnson says:

    I am really hungry right now. 🙂

  12. erika says:

    I love this post! I agree that meat is becoming special in a whole new way and that veg dishes are evolving so fast there is so much out there!

  13. ashish says:

    I bet the two boys are still working somewhere at that strip mall and telling their friends “Dude that boy in post was me!” 🙂
    I am a vegetarian too and you captured the feeling vegetarians get in fancy restaurants so accurately.
    I also get amused at the questions they ask claryfying the boundaries of vegetarianism “Do you eat fish or chicken?” When I say no then they go to the other end “is choose OK?” 🙂

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  15. Mahee Ferlini says:

    I agree that a fine meal is like a work of art and I enjoyed reading about your experience. Thank you for sharing!

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